Halloween pictures and three quick stories…
Sidney is walking all over. A couple nights ago, we rigged a “secret base” in the playroom by arranging a sheet over the couch and the chair. Sidney saw the sheet edge that was hanging down and went after it like it was a wall. Down she went, laughing all the way. On her next pass by the secret base, she did it again. Sheet, lunge, forward fall, laugh.
Adrian has been struggling a bit with listening recently. He’s even missed his evening show a couple of times as a result. We’ve been working with his teachers to help him work on his listening skills. At school, they started this thing with listening ears. Adrian reaches up to both ears and makes a clucking noise to turn them on. They still turn themselves off sometimes (maybe they are solar-powered?), but it is adorable watching him turn them back on and get focused on listening and making better decisions. Of course, he’s also been really sweet recently. He hugs Sidney all the time and helps unpack her bottles at daycare. He gives me kisses and holds my hand. He helps set the table and clean up the playroom.
When my parents were here this past weekend for the UGA football game (and to visit us!), my dad gave Riley a pocket full of change for the collection plate at Sunday School. She is so happy to be jiggling her change all morning. The plate comes closer to her, and then the tears start to flow. She does want to give up the change. First we get her to get a coin out. Then one for her brother. Mind you, this is all under duress, and now she’s crying even harder.
Through sobs: “I don’t want to give it all.”
Same girl who the day before made a collage for a teacher at her school who gave her a pack of Skittles the other day. Exact same girl. It was awful.
Finally, pocket empty, face red and wet, Riley calms down, and the ordeal is over. Apparently generosity has an on and off button, too.
We used this as an opportunity to talk about giving to others. And we laughed about it.